Exposing Love Has Won: Andrew-Ryan’s Viral Interview on the #1 Podcast
“Your struggles don’t define you. What defines you is the moment you choose to stand in your authenticity. Vulnerability is strength — because once you’ve laid yourself bare, there’s nothing left anyone can take from you.”
– Andrew-Ryan Profaci
In this featured Love Has Won survivor interview, author and cult survivor Andrew-Ryan Profaci sits down with the host of Book Review 101, the #1-ranked show on PodMatch, to tell the raw and powerful story behind his memoir, The War on Love.
“I served Amy like a queen, while dismantling the Mother God persona with every opportunity I had.”
From his time inside the infamous Love Has Won cult to his emotional escape, this conversation digs deep into what it means to love someone trapped in delusion, to survive betrayal, and to heal through authenticity.
Andrew shares intimate details of his time as Father God to cult leader Amy Carlson, the inner war he waged against the false persona of “Mother God,” and the truth behind Amy’s decline, death, and posthumous mummification. He also introduces his FIRE and RISE healing system, a tool born from trauma, refined through recovery.
🔥 The FIRE and RISE Method
Andrew-Ryan’s personal system for healing and transformation, born from his journey through trauma, cult survival, and cancer recovery.
- F – Feel: Allow yourself to fully feel the emotions of your experience without judgment.
- I – Inquire: Ask honest questions about what happened, why it affected you, and what it brought up.
- R – Reveal: Name the truth you uncover. Shine light on what was hidden, denied, or suppressed.
- E – Empower: Choose growth. Use your insight to reclaim your voice, energy, and direction.
and - R – Reflect: Look at the experience with perspective. What did it teach you?
- I – Integrate: Weave the lessons into your life moving forward.
- S – Surrender: Let go of control over the past. Accept what is and what was.
- E – Expand: Step into a higher version of yourself, aligned, awake, and authentic.
Andrew’s own FIRE and RISE Method for personal transformation.
“It’s not just about healing. It’s about evolving. That’s the heart of FIRE and RISE.”
🧠 Other topics in the interview include:
- Spiritual manipulation & gaslighting
- Reconciling love and betrayal
- Healing from cult trauma
- The mummification aftermath
- What true devotion looks like, and what it doesn’t
- How writing the book helped him transform
“Don’t ever make space for someone else to tell you who you are. Own your authenticity in all moments. Listen to your gut, your intuition, don’t deny that inner voice. Stand in your truth, always.”
This is one of the most grounded, emotionally honest cult interviews on the internet right now. If you’re a survivor, a seeker, or someone navigating your own “war on love,” this one is for you.
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